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TALK: Agony Aunt says the only way to resolve an issue is to talk about it like an adult.
TALK: Agony Aunt says the only way to resolve an issue is to talk about it like an adult.

I was half-naked in the lounge room. His mother hardly looks at me and when she does she clearly hates the sight of me. I'm not sure what his father thinks but he keeps giving me weird smiles.

Agony Aunt

Dear Aunty,

My boyfriend's mother and father caught us having sex in their house.

Well, actually my boyfriend lives there too.

We have been together for two years and are living with them while we try to save enough money to buy our own home.

He told me they were going to be out for the whole day and then they came home suddenly.

I was half-naked in the lounge room.

His mother hardly looks at me and when she does she clearly hates the sight of me.

I'm not sure what his father thinks but he keeps giving me weird smiles.

My boyfriend claims that they're fine and have "forgotten the whole thing".

This whole thing is threatening our relationship.

Anonymous

AGONY AUNT

Well, humiliating and embarrassing are the words that come to mind!

But chin up young lady, these things happen.

Clearly you two don't live together at this stage so surely his parents have got to know you are having sex somewhere.

I would just go talk to his mum.

Be honest, explain the situation and apologise.

She may just pass it off or she may have a bit of a vent, but then it will be over.

It may even be something you may have the odd joke about in the years to come.

As for your boyfriend's Dad, he probably thinks it's all a bit of a joke.

If you are adult enough to be having sex and saving for a home, you are adult enough to talk this out.

Keep smiling, it will all work out.

AA

BOYS CLUB

Might be a good time to grovel!

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