Waggas Agony Aunt answers your questions

DEAR Aunty,

My husband is forever staring at other women. He stares and comments about every female that shows flesh and it doesn't matter if they are 45 or 20.

His comments are smutty and disrespectful not just to me but females in general.

I now no longer want intimacy with him. I feel that I am being compared unfavourably.

I have talked to him a couple of times about this but he tells me if I don't like it I can leave.


YOU know what really bothers me? The recurring theme of guys thinking that, "you can leave if you don't like it', is a reasonable response to disrespectful behaviour. Well it is time that you guys got over yourselves and realised that it isn't OK to behave like deluded, self absorbed prats!

I think you have to call it as it is and remind him that you will take only so much. If he doesn't like it, maybe he can leave.

You need this to stop. Not only is he destroying your marriage, eventually he will get called out on this behaviour by somebody who overhears him and the society in which we now live, he could find himself in court.

Take control of your life, don't let this neanderthal hurt you any more.


WE could say boys will be boys but this seems a little bit over the top to us.

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