Dear Aunty,
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WHAT would you all do if intamacy with your husband was a total turn off?
We have sex about twice a year; I rarely enjoy myself – he is not good in the bed department, and never has been.
He just seems awkward and I often feel, twice a year that is, the he is just doing it as part of his job as husband.
The problem really is that I do love him and believe he loves me, despite this issue
I have tried to broach it with him over our 10 years together but he instantly gets defensive and of course says it is all my fault.
I'd actually like to have a great sexual relationship with my husband but I cannot see that happening at this stage.
Any advice that won't cause huge arguments? I love him dearly but would like this part of our relationship to improve.
AGONY AUNT
OUCH, ouch and more ouch!
Communication is the only way out of this I feel, unless of course you want to start taking the initiative in the bedroom and playfully teach this man what it is all about.
Don’t be passive, maybe he thinks you are accepting of the situation, maybe his sexual experience before you has not lent itself to him having great “bedroom moves”.
Make it playful, make it fun- bet it will work.
Merry Christmas to you and yours.
BOYS CLUB
SORRY, it can’t be all his fault.
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